Stepping Into Your Power

Before becoming a mama, I had found my calling and was having an epic time coaching and running workshops.

Then I realized there was a bit of a disconnect with the mamas I was coaching.

I couldn’t understand why it was so hard to put yourself first, prioritize self-care.

“You’re not a mom!” is what one of them told me, and it hit me.

I wanted to be able to connect and understand to be able to truly help, but I had to live it and get through it to understand first.

The universe, God listened and six months into coaching after leaving my life in America and quitting my 8 year paralegal career, launching and running 5 figure coaching group programs, being nominated for a small business award and making finalist, I unexpectedly (without planning to, with PCOS and infertility issues), fell pregnant.

It wasn’t the happy news I was expecting either; I was scared shitless. I didn’t feel ready, but it was happening and I accepted the blessing that was gifted to me,

What I’ve experienced since then, which is now nearly 6 years, has been nothing short of a complete dissolution of who I thought I was.

My world got turned upside down, revealing all the crap that had been hiding in the shadows of my being (trauma, wounding, all the shit no one wants to see, much less have to deal with). The old Dayan I’d created to survive, died.

Thanks to my now two little blessings, I have been reborn, freed to be the real me.

As I worked through (and continue to work through, because let’s be real, we’re all a work in progress) my shadow self, healed lots of my childhood trauma and more, I then understood why it was so hard to be a mama who put herself first and prioritised her self-care.

I don’t have it all figured out and never will, none of us do no matter how much we try and pretend like we do, but I am so much better at riding the waves of the season I’m in.

At the same time, my ability to tap into abundance expanded like never before.

That’s right, even though I quit several streams of income and focused on less, worked way less hours because I physically couldn’t work more, took nearly a year off of maternity leave, I manifested more money than I ever have before, grew a million dollar company, with just last year being the year I’ve manifested the most I have my entire life.

So even through all the mental breakdowns, pain, struggle, shadow work I’ve done, weight I put on, working less hours, putting my coaching business aside for a while, I manifested the most money I’ve ever seen in my life.

What do I owe think did it?

Allowing my world to crumble and work through all the shit.

I’ve been consistently working on myself these past 6 years and I’ve always had a mentor or coach.

I’ve always taken brave inspired action even if I didn’t know how anything would turn out or if it would work.

And now I’m here, on the other side ready to meet you where you are and hold space for you to step into your power.

Let’s create magic together!

With love and gratitude,

Dayan